<strong>Question</strong>: How long have you been in to the cuckholding lifestyle? How did your husband first tell you about his fantasy? What was your initial reaction? Love your first book!<p><strong>Answer</strong>: It’s been more than a decade now. </p><p>There wasn’t really a time when he first told me about his fantasy, to be honest. It sort of slowly became obvious that’s what he was into. There was a time when we’d read naughty stories to each other and he always liked the ones that involved wife sharing and threesomes more than any other. He’d always get excited when I talked to him about someone flirting with me at work. There was a time when someone straight up kissed me (without me knowing it was coming or being into it, to be honest) and instead of being jealous he was really turned on.</p><p>Eventually we got to the point where we actually talked about it, but everything happened so gradually that I don’t really remember a specific instance of him sitting down and sharing his fantasy with me.</p><p>Given the slow reveal, I wasn’t exactly shocked when he laid it out for me. Still, like most women I was a little confused. I don’t think guys realize just how difficult it is for a woman to understand what makes cuckolding arousing. Everything in society says that a man is supposed to be jealous (and even furious) if his wife has sex with someone else. A cuckold is the exact opposite. It turns him on. It makes him happy. It took a long time before I actually slept with someone else, but it wasn’t all that long before we incorporated cuckolding into our fantasy play together.</p><p><strong>Question</strong>: Are any of your books available in printed hard copy for people not using Kindle?</p><p><strong>Answer</strong>: Unfortunately not. I may look into that in the future, but for now I’m going to keep using Kindle. The books are so short that I don’t think they’d be worth it for a hard copy. If I were to write a few sequels to Anna Lee, for instance, I could see publishing a trilogy in a hard copy.</p><p><strong>Question</strong>: We fell in love, I'm in him and he in me more than twenty years ago. We first had sex at 17. I immediately got pregnant and gave birth to twins. Nevertheless, we both finished College and started the joint work in the family business. My husband has a small penis. 3.9 inches in erection. He doesn't need more than a minute to cum. He has developed a great oral technique. Only orally he can bring me to orgasm. My vagina is not designed for small penises. During intercourse I feel almost nothing. Therefore, I liked his fast blowing loads. </p><p>Three years ago he has become addicted to porn. He just masturbated, sex, and oral sex was a rare/ We've talked many times to he stop it but without result. I bought a chastity belt for him. CB is restrict his masturbation and returned his yearning for me. Great oral sex is come back but it is no longer enough for me. We talked about cuckolding and he agreed that I find Bull for sex. It was very difficult. Several of them have been too dominant and rude. I am dominant, but when I have sex with Bull I like to he has the initiative. Finally I found someone who is so cute with a big penis, he should have more than a minute to cum. Ha, ha, ha...Much more. I have sex with him, sometimes alone, sometimes with husband. </p><p>My husband does not want only to watch but also to participate in sex. He Always has a chastity belt, but he loves to lick my vagina and preparing for Bull's penis and put in vagina. He likes to lick my clit during intercourse, that give me incredibly powerful orgasm. He clean up Bulls load but he doesn't want to sucking Bulls penis. Bull insists he but he won't do that. He says it's a homosexual act, and that he doesn't want to do it. On one occasion, the Bull is in rough way insisted that he sucking his penis. After that my husband didn't want anymore to look Bull. He told me that I could have sex with him when I want but without him. Bull didn't like it, and Bull and I broke up relationship. My question is that all bulls bisexual and why so much insistence that my husband sucking his penis? How is that important for Bull and common behavior?</p><p><strong>Answer</strong>: It honestly sounds like your bull went way over the line. He shouldn’t be forcing your husband to do anything he doesn’t want to do, let alone to suck cock. That’s a line some men, even submissive cuckolds, aren’t willing to cross.</p><p>That being said, the guys that are genuinely good at being bulls get off on the control they have over a couple. It’s about the sex, of course, but what ends up being really thrilling is being able to make a submissive couple do what they order. Looking at it from that perspective, you can understand why getting a straight husband to suck cock would be so thrilling for a dominant bull.</p><p>It sounds like your husband sunk into a shame spiral after the bull made him suck his cock. It doesn’t matter if it was just a submissive act. To him, it felt like a homosexual act and it likely brought up all sorts of bad feelings.</p><p>In the future, establish boundaries before you have sex with a bull. If your husband doesn’t want to suck his cock, that’s fine. If he wants to lick your pussy while the bull is fucking you, that’s fine too. It’s awfully close to sucking cock, but that seems to be his boundary. Both you and the bull need to respect that.</p><p><strong>Question</strong>: What is the best way for a single man to become a woman’s cuckold?</p><p><strong>Answer</strong>: Unless you pay someone, you’re almost certainly not going to find a woman that just wants to cuckold you. What’s in it for her? Unfortunately for all you single guys, this isn’t really a female fantasy. There are no absolutes, of course (I’ve seen women on Fetlife looking for cuckolds), but for the most part you’re really going to struggle to find a woman to cuckold you if you’re single.</p><p>It almost always happens in a long term relationship. If you’re lucky, you have a strong relationship and you find someone that happens to want the same things as you (or close to it). Cuckold relationships really only work when both the man and woman are getting something from the cuckolding that they can’t get out of the core relationship. A big cock for the woman and the delight of being cuckolded for the man is the most common theme, but it’s hardly the only thing.</p><p>Ultimately, sharing your desires with your long term partner and trying to find a way for you to both enjoy them is the surest way to a genuine cuckold relationship.</p>